I know you don’t know what to expect.
I know that you’re scared.
I know you don’t know if you should parent or place for adoption.
I know you don’t want to hurt the HAP (hopeful adoptive parents).
I know you really don’t know your options.
I know you are worried if the AP’s will hold up their end.
I know you are scared if you will ever see your baby again.
I know you are scared if your baby will hurt you.
I know all of these things because I was you.
I still wonder will my son hate me.
I still wonder if his AP’s will cut me off at any moment.
There are many what if’s in adoption but YOU have to make the best decision that fits you. Ask yourself, is this a temporary situation? There are some programs that can help.